Holding For a Breath…(An Update from Angie)

Posted by on Jul 25, 2013 in Updates | 148 Comments

This is a difficult post for #GoTeamGray to write, as Angie has asked us to translate her thoughts into an update.

“I don’t have the strength to do it.” she said, as she asked us to write the following.

On Tuesday night, Will was having difficulty breathing. Angie called the nurse and the doctor, who came over to drain the fluid surrounding his lungs. Sadly, this procedure (which is necessary to relieve pressure) caused Will to vomit.

Because of Will’s decreased strength, vomiting caused Will to aspirate. This incident brought about a call to 911 and a transfer to ICU.

Unfortunately, those efforts to lessen Will’s discomfort resulted in the worsening of his pneumonia. Will was never really able to catch his breath from these attempts, and thus has not breathed comfortably.

Last night (Wednesday), as Will’s condition declined, Angie was presented with the decision none of us wish upon anyone – Add a tube to assist in Will’s breathing or let him slip away.

As Angie said, “I didn’t know what to do. We have talked about doing everything to help Will live, but also how we don’t want to unnecessarily prolong his life.”

In the end, Angie opted for the breathing tube for a few days to see if Will gains any strength or consciousness.

At the time of this post (Thursday morning, 8:30 am PST), Will is still alive, but according to Angie, “barely responsive.”

Her update ends there, as we’re sure she is held tightly to his side, clinging to the earthly love still beating beside her. We at #GoTeamGray will send all the strength, peace, clarity, prayers, love, comfort we can. After all, with an average of 4000 visitors per day to this site alone, we know that Will and Angie are encased in a very tangible love.

We will continue to update as we learn more. In the meantime, your prayers and positive thoughts are coveted.

#GoTeamGray

23 Comments

  1. jenna
    July 26, 2013

    May God be with you.

    Reply
  2. The Barbers
    July 26, 2013

    You remain in our daily thoughts and prayers. Our merciful Father will be by your side.

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  3. Holly
    July 26, 2013

    Love you both!

    Reply
  4. Autumn and Jay
    July 26, 2013

    Our love and continued prayers are with you. May the peace of Christ surround you.

    Reply
  5. Alison
    July 26, 2013

    You are both in my thoughts right now.

    Reply
  6. matt
    July 26, 2013

    Praying for you and your family.

    Reply
  7. Lauren
    July 26, 2013

    Praying, right now. Got your post through the Mohrs. Also dealing with grief right now, but I cannot imagine grief and uncertainty over the life of a child.

    Asking the Lord to wrap you up with his comfort and love and his unending peace. He knows your days, and your son’s, and He is good. And able.

    May his will be done, and I will be praying with hope that His will is merciful.

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    • Lauren
      July 26, 2013

      Correction. I know God’s will WILL be done, and I know that he will be merciful. For he always is.

      Just prayed. So be it.

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    • Lauren
      July 26, 2013

      Argh! And another correction… not your son’s… Will’s… adjusting prayers and thought processes now that I’ve read more of your blog. But God knows what I meant, and what you need.

      Done correcting. Just praying.

      Reply
  8. Judy Henley
    July 26, 2013

    Prayers from Nashville for such a wonderful young man, his wife and all their family and friends!
    Danielle Henley West’s Mom
    Judy

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  9. Joyce
    July 26, 2013

    My prayers are with you! May the breath of God be upon you and give you peace and wisdom! Hard as it may be at times, we have to know that God’s will is far superior to our own. May the love of God and friends surround you!

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  10. Ryan Hoke
    July 26, 2013

    Our hearts ache for you. You are very, very much in our thoughts. Praying, praying, praying.

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  11. Olivia
    July 26, 2013

    Praying continually for both of you… for Guidance, peace, mercy, and healing. Know that you are in our hearts and minds and are being lifted up as the days continue forward. All our love!

    Reply
  12. Betsey
    July 26, 2013

    Tears are also prayers…and they are all yours.

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  13. anne preven
    July 26, 2013

    Sending all my love. xoxoAnne

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  14. beth
    July 26, 2013

    Praying for you.

    Reply
  15. Carole Kleinknecht
    July 26, 2013

    Trusting God to sustain you, Angie, through this sad time – so thankful for the hope of Heaven! (for all of us!)

    (Morgen’s mom, Baby Will’s grandmother)

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  16. Sarah
    July 26, 2013

    The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
    Psalm 34:18

    Reply
  17. Rachel Lear- Lewis
    July 26, 2013

    Thinking of you and sending many prayers your way….

    Reply
  18. Nancy
    July 26, 2013

    PRAYNG

    Reply
  19. Danielle
    July 26, 2013

    My heart grieves with you Angie. There are no words…may the spirit of God bring peace and understanding to you both.

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  20. pat mahan
    July 26, 2013

    My heart breaks for William and all his family. Such horrible times can only be helped with prayers and the entire Gray family are remembered in ours.

    Reply
  21. Jeff
    July 26, 2013

    Sending my love and prayers.

    Reply

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